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Christine Baumgartner, a widow and professional dating and relationship coach provides an ongoing blog addressing the needs of widowers and their families as they try to adjust to the challenges of entering new relationships. Visit her blog at ThePerfectCatch.com and and read her bio here.

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New Year’s Eve Ideas and Suggestions

December 23, 2021

I’ve been talking about the holiday season and widowhood for the past couple weeks. In those articles, I haven’t included the New Year’s celebration because it often impacts people differently than the rest of the holidays. New Year’s is all about reminiscing
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What women wish men knew about them

April 13, 2021

Today’s article is for those widowers who are beginning to think about dating as well as those who have actually begun to date. As you go through the dating process, you may find yourself confused by the differences between the way women and men view the world.
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How to get over a breakup

May 26, 2020

Navigating Painful Breakups without losing yourself You found the perfect catch!* You’re so happy!  Everything in life feels brighter and better.   You talk for hours. There’s huge connection and chemistry between you. You feel like a teenager again! You
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Dating during this quarantine season

May 5, 2020

REASONS WHY NOW DURING THIS QUARANTINE JUST MIGHT BE THE PERFECT TIME FOR DATING I’ve been hearing from lots of people who say they “can’t” date right now. But I’m here to tell you that – during this season of quarantine – it can actually be the
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Three “Dear Abby” questions answered

March 17, 2020

Just about every day, I’m in communication with widowers.  Not only is it what I do as a dating and relationship coach, it also comes from being involved in several widow Facebook groups. I’m so grateful for all these connections, for it has helped my own
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Love Languages

February 25, 2020

Several years after my husband Tony’s death – as the fog of widowhood started lifting – I found myself wondering “what’s next”. I wanted to be open to inspiration and possibilities. I knew they were out there somewhere, if I could just learn how to recognize them.
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Surviving the Holidays

November 18, 2019

How to navigate the holidays With the holidays just around the corner, I’m starting to hear stories and questions on surviving the holidays from the people in my widowhood community. For instance, last week a widower told me he was finding it painful to make his own Thanksgiving
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When friends leave too

July 9, 2019

Among the many devastating changes that come with widowhood, one that often catches people completely by surprise is when one or more close friends leave. Most married couples have a few (or many) friends who are also couples. The relationship between couples may involve:
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